Frequently Asked Questions
What services do you offer?
I offer a variety of BDSM and fetish sessions tailored to your interests and limits, including bondage, discipline, corporal punishment, role-play, and more to consenting adults above the age of 21+.
What is RACK? What is SSC?
RACK (Risk-Aware Consensual Kink)
Risk-Aware: As your Domme, I ensure you are fully informed about the risks involved in our activities. Understanding these risks is crucial for making educated decisions about our play.
Consensual: Consent is the foundation of our sessions. Every activity we engage in is mutually agreed upon, ensuring that your boundaries and mine are respected.
Kink: Our explorations may involve non-normative sexual practices and preferences, tailored to create a fulfilling and consensual experience.
RACK emphasizes the importance of being aware of the inherent risks in BDSM activities. We acknowledge these risks and proceed with informed consent, ensuring that both of us are comfortable with the level of risk involved.
SSC (Safe, Sane, Consensual)
Safe: I prioritize your safety and mine, taking all necessary precautions to minimize risks during our sessions.
Sane: Our activities will be conducted with a clear state of mind, ensuring that both of us are capable of making rational decisions.
Consensual: Consent is paramount. We will discuss and agree upon all activities beforehand, ensuring mutual satisfaction and respect for each other’s limits.
SSC focuses on creating a safe and mentally sound environment for our play. It emphasizes that our activities should be conducted safely, sanely, and with explicit consent from both parties.
Comparison
RACK allows us to engage in a broader range of activities by focusing on risk awareness and consent. It acknowledges that some level of risk is inherent in many BDSM activities, but with informed consent, these can be pursued safely.
SSC takes a more cautious approach, emphasizing safety and mental clarity alongside consent. It may limit certain high-risk activities, ensuring that both of us remain safe and comfortable.
Both frameworks are essential in ensuring that our BDSM activities are ethical and enjoyable. Whether we follow RACK or SSC, the goal is to create a consensual, safe, and fulfilling experience for both of us.
How can I book a session?
To book a session, please fill out the sub application form on my website with your SCREENING DETAILS + DEPOSIT, interests, and preferred session times. I will get back to you within 48-72 hours to confirm availability and discuss further details.
I accept email and text for communication; I do not respond to unknown calls or indulge in unnecessary back-and-forth.
No deposit means no service.
My time is valuable, and I expect you to recognize and respect that. I do not accommodate short notice sessions for new clients; your planning and punctuality reflect your commitment to serving me.
What are your rates and payment methods?
My rates and full list of payment methods are listed on the Sessions page of my website. A deposit is mandatory for all appointments, which can be paid via Venmo, CashApp, ApplePay, Throne or Youpay (for bookings well in advance). Your booking is confirmed only upon receipt of this deposit, securing our time and location. The remaining balance is due at the start of the session, payable in cash (preferred).
What is your COVID policy?
I require all in-person submissives to be vaccinated and tested regularly. I reserve the right to ask for proof of vaccination if necessary. I am fully vaccinated and my most recent booster shot is as of December 2023. I test regularly: every week, and before and after travel. Please reach out to me to reschedule if you feel sick or under the weather. As a person with chronic pain, I truly understand - and would rather you be honest.
COVID testing: Philadelphia | New York City | Online
What should I do if I’m new to BDSM/subbing?
If you are new, I recommend starting with a consultation where we can discuss your interests and any concerns. I also offer beginner-friendly sessions to help you explore BDSM safely and comfortably.
Can I bring my own toys/equipment?
Yes, you are welcome to bring your own toys, but please ensure they are new and/or clean and in good condition. I am building my current arsenal and have quality, medical- grade equipment.
Do you travel? Do you do duos?
I do travel for sessions under certain conditions. Please contact me to discuss travel arrangements and additional fees. I am always open to collaborate with like-minded Dom/mes. Reach out for any interest.
Do you make custom content/videos?
Yes, I create personalized videos, photos, and other types of content based on your requests. Please contact me with your specific ideas and requirements for pricing. Feel free to also inquire directly on my fan accounts.
Do you film with subs?
I do not consider filming with subs unless we have sessioned previously before and established trust and a dynamic in our relationship. I am always looking for submissives to create content with in a consensual, thrilling and creative way.
Do you offer online sessions?
Yes, I offer online sessions via video chat and phone. Feel free to also inquire directly on my fan accounts.
What’s your cancellation policy?
Should you need to cancel, doing so with as much notice as you can and rescheduling within the same month will ensure your deposit is retained for our next encounter. Anything less will not be tolerated, and you will forfeit your deposit.
Pre-planned dates are mandatory, allowing me to fully prepare for our time together.
How should I prepare for a session?
Provide at least 24 hours notice and all necessary screening information (Visible and Current Photo ID with Name, Date of Birth and City/State - all other details can be blurred out or with 2 recent provider references). Screening is required for my safety and consists of a few simple email attachments. The earlier you book, the better. Same-day meets are not accommodated due to the verification process. As our relationship develops, spontaneity may become an option.
Please come/arrive freshly showered and in clean attire. Be sure to hydrate well and avoid heavy meals beforehand. Come with an open mind and a readiness to communicate your desires and limits.
Do you offer consultations?
Yes, I offer consultations to discuss your interests, limits, and expectations. These can be done via phone, video chat or in person before your session.
Do you have a wishlist?
My wishlists can be found here: YouPay, Throne, Amazon (coming soon).
Do you offer subscription services?
Yes, I offer subscription-based access to exclusive content on platforms like OnlyFans, LoyalFans and ManyVids. I also offer a weekly subscription for a more intimate Domme/sub relationship. Email me about options, or check out my fan accounts.
Can I request a specific outfit or scenario?
Yes, you can request specific outfits, props, or scenarios. Please provide detailed information, and note that some requests may incur additional costs.
Where can I send tips and tribute?
I gratefully accept tips and tributes as a gesture of appreciation. You can send tips via Venmo, CashApp, or other methods listed on my About page.